When I moved to Sussex for a job, my Nan welcomed me into her home. I wasn’t sure if I’d stay long-term, so I didn’t want to commit to renting a place right away. Turns out, I stayed — for quite a few years — along with my cat Spaz, who she grew to love just as much as I did.
Nan always made sure I was well-fed. She had this amazing way of throwing together supper out of nowhere, often without even asking if I was hungry. She just knew. And even though her hearing wasn’t the best, somehow she always heard me trying to sneak quietly upstairs for a snack. I'd barely make a sound and I'd hear, “David?... you want some pancakes?” And of course, I’d say yes — even if I didn’t — because it clearly brought her joy. I ate a lot of pancakes during those years, lol.
I was in my 20s, and yet Nan would still stay up in her recliner until I got home, just to make sure I was okay. That was just who she was — caring, loving, and always making sure the people around her were looked after.
Everyone who knew my Nan loved her. She was one of a kind — kind, generous, and full of quiet strength... and I’m pretty sure I got my sarcasm from her too.
Love you, Nan. I’ll miss you always.
Dave Finley
PS - Slip down easy was the best desert ever.
Adrienne and family,
So sorry to read of your Mom's passing. May your memories of times together bring comfort to you all. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Dale and Warren O'Donnell
Thinking of Helen’s family and sending our deepest condolences. We had lovely visits together over the years when she was my patient with Extramural.
Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers,
With my deepest sympathy,
Sue and Dave McFarland
Bruce and Family, so sorry to read about the passing of your Mom. The write up was well done and shows loving care for her. A mother is so hard to lose but God needed a new card player on his side. Regards, Ron & Linda
To Helen's Family, So sorry for your loss. I remember the fun times I had with Helen at Bingo and yes many times she did say she never won but she did well and it kept her going for some time. RIP Helen and we will some day meet in the Bingo Hall up there.
I too was heart broken to hear of Helen’s passing. She was an extraordinary lady in all aspects of life her family was her life. Condolences to family and friends. She will truly be missed but never forgotten
